EMDR can help you work through what still feels heavy and guide you back to a calmer place within you.
We can think of the brain like a library, full of books that are our memories. Most of these books are well organized and neatly on the shelf, so we can easily access them when we want to remember something. However, if something bad happens to us, like a major shock or trauma, the book containing that memory doesn't make it onto the shelf. It stays open on the floor, constantly in the way, so we stumble over it when we actually want to think about something else.
EMDR is like a librarian who helps us pick up that book, sort it, and put it where it belongs. The memory remains, but it stops interfering with our life. So that we only take it out when we really decide to.
In EMDR therapy, we tap into the brain's natural processing process. We use guided eye movements to activate certain brain areas that help process difficult memories. These eye movements help the brain do the work it normally does when we process the day's events in our dreams.
The goal is for you to be able to see these memories as processed events of your life story after therapy. This step can be the key to looking forward with new confidence.
EMDR may sound incredibly technical, but it is one of the most researched and effective trauma therapies. Developed in the 1980s as a treatment for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), it is now internationally recognised and recommended, including by the WHO.
Neuroscientific studies show that EMDR stimulates brain processes linked to emotional integration and memory reprocessing. The eye movements trigger similar processes in the brain as in REM sleep (Rapid Eye Movement). REM is a sleep phase with increased brain activity important for processing emotions and experiences.
EMDR is often helpful if you're dealing with:
EMDR works precisely where our brain stores and processes memories.
➺ Reprogramming Memories
EMDR supports your brain in processing traumatic experiences so that they no longer cause intense stress, fear, or other negative feelings. It's as if EMDR reformat the trauma program on your hard drive, making the memories less burdensome.
➺ Less Stress and Anxiety
Clients report feeling less stressed and anxious after EMDR therapy and overall more emotionally stable.
➺ Interplay of Both Brain Hemispheres
The method uses so-called bilateral stimulation (through eye movements) to activate both brain hemispheres. This promotes internal communication in the brain, which can help in processing trauma.
➺ No Need to Talk
Some people find it difficult to talk about their traumatic experiences. If this is the case for you, EMDR might be particularly helpful, since it's not necessary to talk in detail about your trauma to benefit from the therapy.
➺ Effectiveness
Many clients feel a quick improvement after starting EMDR therapy. Sometimes, just two or three sessions can make significant progress.
An EMDR session typically proceeds as follows:
Goal Setting: Together, we identify the topic that concerns you and the specific traumatic experiences you want to work on.
Bilateral Stimulation: I ask you to envision the event while we simultaneously perform bilateral brain stimulation. This process is repeated several times, and after each round, I ask you about the sensations, thoughts, and feelings that arose for you.
New Perspective: The goal is for you to experience the traumatic event in a less distressing way and to gain a new perspective on the situation. The focus is on concentrating on a distressing event while simultaneously reducing the stress level and enabling deeper processing. This leads many clients to a decrease in emotional burden, anxiety, and mood swings.
The duration of EMDR therapy strongly depends on you – what you've experienced and how you respond to the method. Without knowing you, it's naturally hard to make a prognosis. However, after just a few sessions, many clients can feel a significant change. EMDR is very well-suited as a standalone therapy form or as a complement to body therapy for trauma work.
Each person and every trauma is unique. That's why it's important that we discuss your situation in detail in the first conversation to find the best therapy path for you. However, it's important to note that EMDR is not suitable for every person or every issue. Therefore, it's crucial that we conduct a thorough anamnesis in the first conversation and that the EMDR session is integrated into a (short-term) therapy.